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la-la-leah asked: Oh my god that teen pregnancy hate blog is ridiculous. Does the age really matter? If you look after your child then who cares how old you are? She doesn't even seem to take into consideration that being a teenager doesn't automatically make you bad, she seems to literally think you're a failure if you have a child before you are 20. WTF. I know what you’re saying and I completely understand what you mean, but unfortunately some people live in, what I like to think of as, a small mental box and their ignorance doesn’t allow them to open their minds to anyone else’s opinion or way of life because they fear they may be wrong and that scares them like hell, so they try to intimidate and force their views on others with their negative, small minded, thoughts and try to bother people, make people feel bad because it makes them feel like they’re heard and above somebody, but in reality they’re just idiots that nobody with a brain cell listens to, this is how it goes with people who are still racist or homophobic too, it’s just that particular person hates young mothers for having four letters at the end of their age, “teen”. |
Elijah is in a really great mood this morning :)
he’s giving me lots and lots of smiles.
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Anonymous asked: What is a typical day in the life of Misty? Also, do you work anywhere/want to go back to school? (sorry, I'm a little curious) there isn’t really a typical day, no day is the same, but a day in the life of Misty is pretty damn fun if I’m honest. |
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Anonymous asked: i cant believe people were appalled that you decided to take responsibility of the baby that was growing inside of you!? did they just expect you to casually abort it. My mother fell pregnant at 18 and her father offered her a trip away if she had an abortion because he didn't want to ruin her future, but she denied it and he is now 27 and is the best son she has! Everyone I told I was pregnant expected me to get an abortion apart from one person, who I am proud to say is and always will be Elijah’s godmother and my best friend. |
literally getting so worked up because I’m leaving Elijah for a night to stay with his nana and his dad for the night and every time I think about it I get that jumpy, fluttery, butterfly feeling in my heart and tummy, the kind you would usually get when stood at a great height with a fear of falling. I feel like I’m abandoning him and it’s awful but at the same time I trust Lee, his mother and the rest of his family, I love them to bits and I feel like I’m making Lee feel like he’s untrustworthy but I do trust him, it’s just the thought of leaving my baby and not being able to physically see if he’s okay and he’s happy, I hate it.
On the bright side, I’m really looking forward to spending time with my best friend and I get to do a photo shoot with her and drink some nice wine I’ve been saving for an occasion for a while now and just generally catch up with her and find out what’s been going on in her life. It’s crazy, since having Elijah time just shoots past me, the past 2 weeks have felt like 2 days, a really amazing, wonderful, 2 days, sometimes I lose track of time and suddenly realize how long it’s been since I spoke to a friend or anyone who isn’t a member of Lee’s family or my family and I don’t realize. So Thursday night and Friday daytime is probably going to be a really good thing for me, just to have a little “Misty” time and it will be nice for Lee to have some alone “father and son” time with Elijah.
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it’s been a long hormonal day, EVERYTHING has made me cry.
Lee made a joke at me and that made me cry so I went in a huff for an hour, then I looked at Elijah and he made me cry, then I tried to distract myself by looking at old photographs, found one of me and my grandad who passed away around this time last year and then cried but hid it from Lee, then Lee asked me if I was okay and then I don’t even know what happened, I just burst into tears and ran off. I came back into my room about 30/40mins later and Lee thought it was his fault, but it wasn’t, I was just being an idiot and then he set me off again because he was being lovely and jokey about it, he said “come here you nuttcase :)” and was hugging me to stop me from crying and then my poor mom walked in and set me off because I realized I hit her in the face this morning by accident because we both went in the same direction at the same time and then cried about that.
I’m just a bag of hormones right now :’)
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mine and Elijah’s hands :)
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because I have just about a million messages right now asking me the same things about the birth and other things and I know there is no way in hell I will physically be able to answer them all and I’ve really been trying hard to.
but I appreciate every message and ask and I hope that the answers you want are there for you guys. :)
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now there’s a conversation I NEVER thought I’d have to have with my son when he’s older. :’)
basically we had Elijah’s baby book out last night and I was waiting for somebody to get me some tape so I could stick his little belly button clip with the little bit of umbilical chord in there but obviously me and my parents got talking and got distracted by something and it had been left on the table over night on the little blue clip and apparently my parents woke up and the blue clip was stuck to the dogs mouth…. What am I going to say to Elijah’s dad today?!?! :’D
“Hello Darling, you know that old saying “the dog ate my homework” well here’s a new one for you!”
oh dear…
typical!
only me!
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This is Elijah just about 10 minutes old with me, my mom, his dad and a family friend just before everything went wrong with me, trying to open his eyes and get rid of all the mucus in his system, which is why he’s pulling all those funny faces. he was gorgeous from the first second :)
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this is Elijah literally minutes old being held by his dad while I was being sorted out.
they were in awe of each other from first glance.
:)
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